Getting it On
what a topic. my mom tried to tell me that i had to be a pure until i got married. (i didn't listen to her) in some cultures you can actually be killed if you did it before marriage. the mother in law will actually check the sheets the next day and if there is no blood then the girl is stoned to death or drowned by her embarrassed father. here in america it is not so serious. i have a sneaking idea that Katie Holmes saved herself for Tom Cruise. she had her eye on the prize from the time she was old enough to see her first Tom Cruise movie. she knew what she wanted and that was to marry Tom. why do you think he was jumping on the couch like a crazed person? could it be that Katie Holmes saved herself for prince charming? another smart girl was Princess Grace. she was a movie star (before my time) that saved herself and a prince found out about it and married her.
ok, lets just say you already did the deed. ( hopefully, you will have a good memory from it because the first is important. )now your wondering if you actually had the big O. it feels great. but your not sure. in those romance novels they always talk about stars in your head and such. that only happened to me once. the stars that is. here is the thing. you have to experiment with yourself first to know how, then you can tell your guy what to do. how are you going to tell him if you don't know? and remember there is no shame in touching yourself. guys love it that your so turned on and getting carried away like that. there is no excuse not to be satisfied unless you just don't feel like it.
Also, be careful about doing all the things the magazines tell you to do. some guys are really going to freak out if you touch their nipples or stick your finger in his poop shoot. its better to ask.
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use a condom. when you don't your saying to your partner "i trust you with my life." DO YOU? here is a list of the incurable diseases that are sexually transmitted. No Cure.
1. HIV
2. Herpes
3. Veneral Warts
4. Hepatitis C
5. HPV
You should never have to use a drug store itch and odor remedy unless you have a doctors appointment.
Remember you shouldn't have a smell down there if your washing with soap. if you do have a strong smell, pain while peeing, terrible itching or unusual stuff in your underwear. then go to your local STD clinic and get checked out. there are places that service for no money. be brave. preserve your fertility and do it.